Friday, January 16, 2009

January 16

I feel like I am still celebrating! I started getting gifts on Monday and that has continued until today, Thursday. I had one of the best birthdays ever, mostly because I felt so remembered and loved by so many friends and family members. The stake RS presidency brought me some balloons and a candle. Sister Jolly bought me flowers, David brought me flowers and another neighbor brought me some lovely calla lilies. Lilies, of all types are my favorite flowers. Another friend in our ward offered to do our laundry for us, and she gave me a cd and some cute socks. Julie and Chrissie took me to lunch and gave me some nice gifts: a CD, a game, some scented soap, a book and some activities to do with the kids. David came home from work early and brought dinner with him. I took a nap for a while and then we had dinner as a family. The boys all did their chores and homework and we watched another episode of Little House on the Prairie, like we have been doing every night before we go to bed.

I took my last dose of Xeloda yesterday. I'm still a little nauseated today, but I feel like I'm getting a little stronger each day. This morning I went to visit my friend in the ward, Janet Harr. She had a mastectomy and radiation about 2 years ago. She was really supportive for me when I was struggling with treatment decisions and when I felt sick. She gave me 2 hats when I turned bald and she gave me a book. It turns out that just recently, her cancer came back and appeared as lesions on her liver, just like I started out with a year ago. The neat thing is that she left Dr. Breyer's practice as well and went to my new doctor, due to my recommendation of Dr. Shehadeh. She is pleased with him and says he helped give her new hope. She just started her chemotherapy last month, so now she is bald again, for the second time. I brought her a bandana and I showed her my black hat with the fall which looks like bangs. She and I had a good talk, as we are both in the same "boat." She also just got a gift of a yorkie puppy who is cute and little and soft. I invited Janet to come over next week and watch the recording I made of Patrick Swayze's interview with Barbara Walters. I found it very inspiring.

Six other ladies in the ward took me to lunch at China Isle this afternoon. We each ordered a different dish and then passed them around the table, family style. I even ordered a take out entree of my favorite mango chicken. One of the ladies brought me a present of some lovely scrapbooking papers and a bunch of little jars of colored glitter. I look forward to using them next week when I am feeling better.

Well, my brother Dave just arrived for a visit. He loves Sandi and nicknames her "crazy pooch." Jonny went on a campout tonight, sleeping in a snow cave and going ice fishing, so just Nathan and Brenton are here. I can hear them downstairs inviting David to play a Wii game with them.
I'll write more later!
Emilee

6 comments:

Jenn K said...

Happy belated Birthday! You've had the best kind of birthday -one spread out with surprises every day. Cool! I'm sorry to hear about your neighbor's cancer returning. She is a true cancer friend in many ways to you. I watched the Patrick Swayze interview last week as well and liked his analogy that cancer is a dragon and all there is to fight it is poison called chemotherapy. So true. Take care. -Jennie

Glen and Bonnie said...

Dearest Emilee,
Thank you for writing in your blog - especially with the details about your Birthday WEEK! It is especially good for us parents to see that our prayers for you are being answered in such a positive way. Heavenly Father is truly kind to us, His children, to let us face adversities but then to give us sweet blessings too, to give us sunshiny days between the rainy ones.

Please KEEP SMILING!

Always LOVE from DAD

Anonymous said...

Hi sis -- I suppose my belated happy birthday is superfluous amongst the outpouring of love you've received from others already. I wish for you many, many more birthdays to celebrate.

Jason, Tiff and the Kids said...

HI Emilee,
This is a friend of the Ellis family from California...just wanted to say you are inspiring! You deserve every incredible celebration for your strength, courage and grace dealing with your challenges and inspiring others!
You are part of my prayers, say Hi to David...he use to drive me to seminary and many church activities!!!
Tiffany Huerta King

Unknown said...

Dear Emilee:

I too wanted to wish you a happy belated birthday and to let you know I am thinking of you.

I have been going through a difficult time myself as I am going through my divorce proceedings and I wanted you to know that I have much empathy for you and for the pain, frustration, fear and anxiety that you must feel every so often. In a different and totally different way I have felt some of the same feelings and I wanted you to know that we were both kindred souls in some way and "spiritual beings having a mortal experience".

I wanted you to know that deep in my heart I know that it will all be for our good in the long run and that the pain and suffering we feel and experience here on Earth will not be in vain as a loving and gentle God somehow will make everything right.

Hang in there and know you are loved beyond what you may feel at times.

With many thoughts of health, love and comfort for you.

Amedee

Kathryn said...

I am so happy you had such a happy birthday! Of course I was thinking of you on Thursday and knew you were going out with my sisters. So glad you were so well remembered and taken care of. Much love. Kathryn